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Es tan irritante escuchar a alguien decirte como hacer algo que no entiende, quiza pienses "wao ella cree que dejarse un pajon e la gran vaina", si creo que lo es por que fue una decision dificil para mi, ha sido un proceso dificil para mi y sigue siendo dificil intentar mantenerlo, por que para mi no es solo no peinarme como creen algunas personas, requiere tiempo y dedicacion, por que? por las razones que lo hice.
No decidi dejarme el pelo natural por moda o por como luce o por lo que las personas piensen sobre el, lo hice por la salud del mismo, cuando inicie tan solo tenia una pelicula de cabello y apenas me llegaba a los hombros, siempre me ha gustado inventar con los colores de mi pelo pero no podia ni pensarlo, hasta me daba miedo ir a la playa por lo horrible que me encontraba. Alguien dira "pero tanto drama por el pelo y ella estando gorda, que rebaje mejor", mi peso no me preocupa ni molesta no recuerdo ser de otra manera en ningun punto de mi vida pero mi pelo si me afectaba por que mientras intentaba "arreglarlo" peor estaba, no me habia dado cuenta que no habia nada que arreglar.
Pase por fases muy incomodas, mi madre me desrizo a los 8 anos, cuando decidi dejarme el pelo natural ni sabia que esperar, busque fotos de diferentes tipos de rizos para preguntarle a mi madre como era y ni ella recordaba. secarlo a blower, transicionar, buscar peinados, cortarlo, ver como crece lentamente... escuchar las opiniones negativas.
Los comentarios como "peinada te ves mas bonita", "tu si lo coje suave, no tienes que peinarte" "y tu vas para la reunion con ese pajon" son muy irritantes, crecer en una sociedad acostumbrada a estandares a cierto patron de conducta, de vestimenta, y que no se permiten entender a los demas a veces puede ser un tormento, y me permito pensar que es una enorme prueba para crecer como persona y fortalecer la paciencia.
La verdad del asunto es que no hay nada que arreglar por que mi pelo es asi, nada se ve mejor en mi que con lo que vine de fabrica, me siento excelente con mi pelo, adoro tocarlo y sentir su textura, verlo fortalecerse, crecer, no tener que pensar en ir a maltratarlo cada vez que tenga que salir, poder tener mi cabeza limpia siempre, ponerle colores si quiero.... y nada de esto tiene que ver con los demas.
Thousandth time today hear someone comment about my hair and what I should do with it.
It's so irritating to hear someone tell you how to do something they do not understand, maybe people think "wow she thinks having curly hair is a big deal" I think it is because it was a difficult decision for me, has been a difficult process for me and trying hard to keep still, because for me my hair is not only not as some people believe, requires time and dedication, why? for the reasons I did.
I did not decide to grow my natural hair for fashion or how it looks or what people think about it, I did it for the health of it, when you start just had a layer of hair and it barely reached my shoulders, I have always liked to invent with colors on my hair but I could not even think about doing anaything to it, I was afraid to go to the beach cause I was awful. Someone will say "but so much drama by the hair and she still fat", my weight does not bother me or upset not remember being otherwise in any point in my life but my hair did while trying to "fix "It was worse, had not quite realized that there was nothing to fix.
Go through very uncomfortable phases, my mother straighten my hair when I was 8 years, when I decided to grow my natural hair, I didnt know what to expect, looked for photos of different types of curls to ask my mother how it was and neither she remembered. blower dryed, transitioning, hairstyles search, cut it, watch it grow slowly ... listen to negative reviews.
Comments like "you look prettier with straight hair", "Your so chill you do not have to comb your hair" "and you go to the meeting with that pajon" are very irritating, growing up in a society accustomed to a certain standard of behavior pattern , dress code, and do not let themselves understand others can sometimes be a pain in the a**, I allow myself to think that is a huge test to grow as a person and strengthen patience.
The truth of the matter is that there is nothing to fix because my hair is so, nothing looks better on me than what I came from the factory, I feel good with my hair, I love to touch and feel the texture, see it strengthened, grow , not having to think about going to abuse him every time you go out, to have my head clean always, if I put colors .... and none of this has to do with no one else but my own.
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